First of all, you have to remember that most of the "remarried" couples did so BEFORE they became Christians. And if they divorced and remarried while they were Christians, you have to know they did so with a lot of prayer and much heartache. I don't see this as a problem in Churches anymore. I am remarried, and have a blended family as well. God has used us in ministry for 6 years, He has blessed us beyond measure. Don't look at remarried couples as "untouchables" or "unusables," it's amazing how the women can minister to other women going through hard times in their marriages, and the same with the men. Believe it or not, we have a lot to offer our Church Families. There is nothing you should "do" with us except accept us as brothers and sisters in Christ, and allow our Lord to use us for His glory.